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MY TYPE OF WOMAN   Leave a comment

When I was 16, I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion. So, I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life. In college, I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So, I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 28, I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 35, I found an exciting girl, but I couldn’t keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but direction-less. So, I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 42, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

I am now 55 and am looking for a girl with really big tits.

(I hope I don’t have to tell you that this is supposed to be a joke – but it does illustrate how confused men can be about relationships.)

Happy love-making



Want to stay looking younger?   Leave a comment

Researchers at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital suspect DHEA – one of the hormones released when you make love – increases collagen production, reducing wrinkles.

People in their 40s who had sex three times a week or more were judged to look seven to 13 years younger than their actual age.

The answer: Have sex more frequently, and stay looking younger.

Happy love-making.


Sex Improves with Age   Leave a comment

Sex does improve with age – especially for women.

Researchers attending the annual conference of the North American Menopause Society held in Orlando, Florida, interviewed 39 women attending, with some enjoying sex more than ever, despite having it less often.

These women told the researchers from the University of Pittsburgh they were more confident than when they were younger. They were better at communicating their needs to their partner and willing to broach delicate subjects, such as the use of Viagra. Some had adapted their lovemaking to compensate for age and changes to their bodies caused by the menopause.

They tended to spend more time on fore-play, try new positions, and put more emphasis on intimacy than passion.

Lead author Holly Thomas said: ‘One of the most enlightening findings of this study was the large number of women who had successfully adapted to any negative changes by modifying their expectations regarding sexual activity, putting more emphasis on the emotional and intimacy aspects of sex, or adapting the sex acts themselves.’

Denise Knowles, a sex therapist with the marriage guidance charity Relate, said: ‘Maybe we are more confident and have more of a what-the-heck attitude.’

Dr Pam Spurr, a relationship expert and agony aunt, said: ‘There is a lot of good news in this study. With age, women gain more wisdom about their sexual responsiveness and pleasure. Such self-knowledge helps rekindle the spark that might have been lost.’

Such wisdom is expressed, and illustrated, as well as researched and published in an easy to read, and sometimes humorous way, in Exploring Sex, Love and Lust, by Clive Peters. You know you deserve a copy to refer to – and continue to enjoy the best sex ever, no matter what your age.

Happy love-making.


Talking Sex   Leave a comment

A survey for insurers published in today’s Daily Mail:


There’s a whole chapter devoted to The Importance of Communication, and how to get into it with each other, as well as your kids, in Exploring Sex, Love and Lust by Clive Peters. A local GP told me he knew some 65 year olds who could use the information in this easy-to-read book. Anecdotes from real people talking about their ‘first time’, to taboo subjects, like anal sex, finding the G spot; tips on how to get the best out of your sexual relationships, the right foods for best sex, getting and maintaining good erections; you name it and you will find it here.

Happy, enjoyable, lasting sexual relations.


Parent & Adult Child   Leave a comment

The last person a teenager wants to talk to about sex is Mom or Dad. So they (sometimes) ask their peers (what do they know?) or they browse the internet. As a parent, you want to make sure they get the right advice – but how do you do that when they believe you know nothing!!

An easy to read guide, stuffed with personal anecdotes as well as informed studies by professionals, can help. Parents who have read Exploring Sex, Love and Lust, have told me how good it is to be able to simply hand over a comprehensive guide to their kids and use it as a discussion point or just let them read it for themselves.

Better still, parents have told me how this book has improved their own sex lives, renewed old drives, introduced new ideas, got them back together even. My dentist was the first to tell me this – he wrote an interesting review for the first page of the book. See what you think, and let me know.

Happy love-making.

Clive Peters

Update on Exploring Sex, Love and Lust.   Leave a comment

Here’s an update, as at 20 May, of the sales rankings by categories of Exploring Sex, Love and Lust:

# 46 – Contraception and Family Planning.

# 61 – Sex.

# 80 – Kindle store: Sex.

My thanks to all of you that have bought the book; don;t forget to post a review – pointing out which section of this comprehensive work you found particularly informative. It helps others identify the book that could be right for them, too.

Happy love-making.


Getting There   1 comment

Exploring Sex, Love and Lust, just hit  #89 in’s Parent-Child top 100 sales rank listings.

Want to say a big thank you to all of you that bought the book. Please consider writing a review on Amazon – or whichever website you purchased it from – because it really does help others to decide if this book is going to help them in the areas that interest them most.

And another thing, it is becoming more apparent that not only is this book a great help to parents with young adult offspring, it is also refreshing/enlightening the parents own sex lives, too! Great news!!

Happy love-making.