Archive for the ‘female orgasm’ Tag

Sleep More – Improve Your Love Life   Leave a comment

A study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine discovered if a woman slept for an extra hour, she’d have a 14% higher chance of enjoying a sexual encounter with her lover the next day.

Previous studies have shown lack of sleep releases cortisol – the stress hormone – which reduces testosterone, limiting her sex drive.

Reckon the same rule applies to the fellas, too.

Happy love-making.

Clive.

 

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Two Week Challenge   Leave a comment

Here’s the challenge: you must have sex every day for two weeks! This is good for you, girls (grown-up girls, that is).

Studies carried out in Israel showed that women who have had two orgasms a week were almost a third less likely to have heart disease. Another study at Queen’s University, Belfast, found that having sex three time a week could slash your heart attack and stroke risk.

It is a super healthy activity. There is now evidence that it improves your cognitive function and appears to ward off dementia.

How about that!

Happy love-making.

Clive

Pillow Talk   Leave a comment

A man’s personal levels of testosterone can show in the way he whispers ‘sweet nothings’ in his lover’s ears after making love. Those with high levels tend to be reluctant to indulge in chitchat, and those with lower levels are keener, and better at it.

Researchers for a study led by the University of Connecticut described how post-sex communication may serve ‘an important role in not only sustaining a satisfying sexual relationship between partners, but may also contribute to more general feelings of relationship satisfaction and closeness’.

The possible risks of disclosure include ‘loss of control, embarrassment, hurt or rejection’, the researchers say in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. The benefits may include ‘increased intimacy, closeness and satisfaction’. The researchers went on to say: ‘Not only does the current study contribute to researchers’ theoretical understanding of sexual communication, privacy boundaries, and biology, but it could also have broader practical implications for romantic relationships.’

But we already knew this, didn’t we? In the chapter entitled The Importance of Communication in my book Exploring Sex, Love and Lust, you’ll find all the answers you need for the perfect sexual relationship – written in an easy-going style, and plain English!

Happy love-making.

Clive

 

 

Dying on The Job   Leave a comment

Afraid of dying whilst giving the performance of your life? Don’t be!

Believe it or not, and what man has not joked about the way he’d like to die – while making the most memorable coupling ever – researchers, published a study in the Journal of the American College of Cardiology, of this event.

They looked at 13 years of data from 4,500 cardiac arrests (where the heart suddenly stops beating properly so blood is no longer pumped around the body – let alone man’s best friend), and only 34 occurred during or within an hour of sex. That’s fewer than 1% of cases.

So relax; the chances of your dying while bringing your partner to the point of ecstasy and beyond, are so slim you can forget it! It’s even rarer for the woman in your life!

Happy love-making.

Clive

Is Pornography giving you a Headache?   Leave a comment

An interesting piece of research reported yesterday by neurologists from Taiwan. They said that studying brain scans of a 40 year old married man who regularly looked at internet porn showed activity in areas of the brain normally associated with pain, not sex.

One theory is that in some people, viewing pornography triggers an increase in blood flow to the brain at such levels that it causes pain.

Most of us think about viewing porn for arousal, not a headache. But if you fall into this category at least you know the reason why now.

But if she complains of a headache, what does that make you think?!

Happy love-making.

Clive.

Memory Booster for Women   Leave a comment

Seventy-eight women aged 30 or under took a memory test involving abstract words, then filled in a questionnaire on sex. This was carried out as part of a study by researchers at McGill University in Canada.

Those who had sex more often were better able to recall the abstract words.

The researchers came to the conclusion that frequent sex can generate more neurons in the area of the brain that controls memory.

So what are you waiting for?

Happy love-making.

Clive

Don’t Do This   Leave a comment

We fellas often make the mistake of thinking that females find seeing a nude male as sexually stimulating as we find seeing a nude woman. This is not so.

Even worse, for a woman to see an otherwise nude man wearing only his socks is the biggest turn off of all.

If you forget all the other rules, remember this one. Don’t do it.

Happy love-making

Clive